The holidays are upon us and plans for celebrations and get-togethers are being made. Gifts are being purchased and decorations are going up and Christmas music is being played in the stores. And a song we will hear often claims that “It’s the Most Wonderful Time of the Year.” For a lot of people this is a true statement. For many, it is not. Especially for those who have suffered through the loss of a loved one this year or last. Maybe even from many years ago. The absence, the loneliness, the hollowness that can come from the loss can be overwhelming. Almost paralyzing. Especially when it comes to the holidays.
In Arizona we have lost 9 heroes in the line of duty in 2011, and countless others have been lost off duty. Heroes who wore a badge to protect us. These heroes had family and friends and loved ones who will be spending their first holiday season with a hole. A big hole. Hugs lost. Smiles missing. An empty seat at the dinner table. Some will just want to skip it all together. The burden seems unbearable. The hole too deep. The loss too big. The question of “why” is still too fresh.
As we begin a season of meals and celebrations and get-togethers with our family and friends, will you take the time to remember the spouses, the children, the moms and dads, the loved ones who are spending their first holiday season with a family member missing? If you offer a prayer before a meal, would you lift up these hurting families? And as you enjoy this season of sharing with family and friends, would you take a moment to remember the men and women who gave their life to protect you? And remember those who are on duty during your celebration keeping you protected and safe.
By: Danny Dodson
100 Club Chaplain’s Program
